by Andrea Howe | Jan 6, 2020 | Monthly-ish tips
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My mom turns 93 this week (go, Mom!) My interactions with her over the holidays reminded me of a critical lesson for those of us in the business of being influential. It’s what a mentor of mine once labeled, “Being committed, not attached.”
by Andrea Howe | Jan 2, 2020 | Real people
What a year it’s been. To sum it up, our clients and colleagues really kicked a** in 2019. We heard countless stories of your professional and personal victories. To celebrate, we’ve created another year-in-review infographic—a different kind of annual report for a different kind of organization.
The 2019 Get Real Report features a sampling of our clients’ victories, like practicing a different kind of “business development.” It also highlights a few of the contributions our team is really proud of, plus some pretty cool personal victories for team members. (There’s a definite travel theme this year.)
Click the thumbnail to find out who did what … and get a sneak peek at what’s on the horizon for 2020.
Happy New Year!

by Andrea Howe | Dec 30, 2019 | Monthly-ish tips
This post is part of our Monthly Tips series.
I’m taking time off to enjoy a little year-end down time. In the meantime, I’ve curated some Weekly Tips for the diehards. The most popular ones seem to be the most humbling for me, so here are a few oldies but goodies to close out the year.
by Andrea Howe | Dec 23, 2019 | Monthly-ish tips
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I’m taking the week off to enjoy a little year-end down time. In the meantime, look for inspiration for your 2020 intentions in the free and no-strings-attached Get Real manifesto poster and eBook.
by Andrea Howe | Dec 16, 2019 | Monthly-ish tips
This post is part of our Monthly Tips series.
It’s that time of year again. The holidays are in full swing and year-end celebrations are approaching at lightning speed, which means a high probability you’re dreading being with a certain family member. Or two. This week’s tip is being reprised by special request, and with some new resources.
by Andrea Howe | Dec 10, 2019 | Monthly-ish tips
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Funny how within a few days of writing my Weekly Tip on rebuilding lost trust I wake up to a very angry email from a client, directed right at me, so I get to practice what I preach. Yay. I learned a few things from applying my own six-part process. And it just so happens a lot of this went down via email, so in sharing I also get to fulfill last week’s promise on how to rebuild lost trust in writing.
by Andrea Howe | Dec 2, 2019 | Monthly-ish tips
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I’ve been thinking (and writing) a lot about trust and communications lately—related to dialogue as well as broadcasts like presentations and group-wide communications. Here’s my template for how you can rebuild trust you’ve lost when you’re talking to someone. (I’ll take a stab at how it might go for a written communication next week.)
by Andrea Howe | Nov 25, 2019 | Monthly-ish tips
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Full disclosure, I’m working on a proposal for a new book. I’ve been working on said proposal for a long time. Because I need to get serious about finishing it, I need to borrow some scheduled Weekly Tip writing time to get ‘er done.
by Andrea Howe | Nov 21, 2019 | Webinar
Tuesday, February 25, 2020
@11:00 AM to 11:45 AM EST
Take action on your 2020 “work resolutions”! Join us to gain powerful insight on how to strengthen your trustworthiness, build stronger relationships with clients and colleagues, and ultimately grow your business.
Charles H. Green, CEO of Trusted Advisor Associates and Co-Author of The Trusted Advisor, walks us through three proven models to deepen trust in professional relationships:
1. The Trust Equation – our foundational model for Trustworthiness that encompasses Reliability, Credibility, Intimacy and Self-Orientation;
2. The Trust Creation Process – five steps to build trust in conversations: Engage, Listen, Frame, Envision, Commit;
3. The Trust Principles – Four elemental relationship values required for trust to flourish in a professional environment.

by Andrea Howe | Nov 18, 2019 | Monthly-ish tips
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This is the 269th tip I have written, and I realized the other day that there’s one critical construct I haven’t focused on since Tip #15—and even then, I didn’t cover it very thoroughly. It’s time to circle back.
The construct I’m referring to is a mnemonic device I created when Charlie and I were writing The Trusted Advisor Fieldbook. I call it the Three Ps. I’ve since come to see how important the Three Ps are because they shape our thinking about trust, and mindsets are everything when it comes to trust building.