Ever wonder why you get along so well with one client but just can’t seem to make headway with another? It could be that you have different Social Styles. This week’s blog offers a simple and useful framework for understanding and remedying disconnects between you and your clients (or between you and anyone, for that matter).
Human beings have natural behavioral patterns. While it’s important not to stereotype or “box” others in, models that define typical style preferences can be help us understand how to relate to our clients – especially when they are different from us. We like the Social Style Model (www.tracomcorp.com) because it’s easy to understand and immediately apply.
The Social Style Model uses two dimensions of human behavior:
2. Responsiveness is the degree to which you tend to control or emote.
In combination, these two dimensions reveal your Social Style:
The challenge arises when you and your client have different Social Styles but don’t realize it. For example, an Amiable consultant (like me) may misinterpret a Driving client’s focus on actions and results as a lack of caring for his staff, and may frustrate her by spending too much time on relationships. Similarly, a Driving consultant may mistake an Amiable client for someone who is not bottom-line oriented.
So how do you minimize the gap in styles and maximize your ability to get the job done? Check out our next blog post to find out.
Originally published by BossaNova Consulting Group, Inc.
Andrea Howe
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